On the Spectrum and @Your Library
Our son rubs his hands together in a ritualistic flurry. It’s called “stimming” and it is a strategy Alex uses to calm himself down when things get a little too intense for him to handle. Right now things are intense. Apparently, the lady in front of us at the circ desk is concerned because she has fines—she is sure she returned them on time. Alex’s stimming grows faster. Sometimes that happens when he is really happy, but since we have been waiting for a good five minutes to get our movies checked out and be on our way, I’m pretty sure that happiness is currently not an issue. In fact, I get the feeling we are just moments away from a full-on autistic meltdown.
For a child with an autistic spectrum disorder (ASD), a simple trip to the library can be a difficult adventure. Sure, the library has lots of great stuff, but to access it, you have to pay a pretty big price in terms of anxiety. What if they relocated the movies? What if someone else is sitting in your chair? What if the books are not in the right order? When ASD is involved, things are never simple.
Alex was diagnosed with Pervasive Developmental Disorder at age two. Taking him to the library was a challenge even when he was in a stroller. Let’s just say Alex was never too good at displaying proper reverence in Mr. Carnegie’s Temple of Quiet Reflection. As he got too old to be easily corralled, we were forced to stop taking him altogether outside of rare, quick trips in and out.
It still seems strange that we cannot go to the neighborhood library as a family and enjoy browsing the shelves before enjoying some of the great programs they offer. Maybe that’s because we know what we’re missing. Each morning, I commute a few miles up the road from my home to my job as the Director of the Bucyrus Public Library. My wife, Angela, spent six years as a Reference Librarian at the Lima Public Library before we decided that it was best for Alex if she stayed at home to take care of him. We are a family that loves libraries. I just wish my son could enjoy them.
If the statistics are accurate, chances are that you know a kid like Alex too. Since one in every 80 boys and one in every 240 girls are dealing with a disorder on the spectrum, that’s a lot of patrons who may find it difficult or impossible to enjoy the services, materials and programs you work so hard to provide. In fact, it’s more than the total number of people diagnosed with breast cancer and childhood diabetes each year combined. It is my hope that the profession will increasingly realize that this rapidly growing and often misunderstood segment of our community is underserved—and that is unacceptable.
Fortunately, librarians do seem to get it. They want to help. No one wants to see a population excluded from the library, but many staff members do not feel like they have the training or the tools to serve individuals with an autistic spectrum disorder. In New Jersey, Fanwood Memorial Library and the Scotch Plains Library have teamed up to create “Libraries and Autism: We’re Connected,” an awesome outreach for ASD individuals. Be sure to check out their training video to pick up great tips for staff interacting with the ASD community.
As I mentioned though, my wife and I are not just librarians. We’re patrons and parents and autism looms large in our lives. So I would like to leave you with a few tips from that perspective. Hopefully, they can make your library a welcoming place for families like ours:
1. Be Sensitive: Teen Librarians are used to some pretty bizarre patron behavior, but a child dealing with a particularly difficult ASD moment can raise that to a whole new level. These kids and their caregivers are used to seeing shocked stares and obvious disapproval everywhere they go. Don’t let the library become associated with that scene. If a behavior cannot be ignored, a simple, sincere offer to help would be appreciated.
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Matt also suggests doing targeted materials; Toys R Us gives us a good example of a helpful list with its autism friendly toys list. Without a doubt libraries could make the same type of lists highlighting books in their collections for people on the spectrum. You can read my previous blog post on Teens/Tweens with Autism and Libraries which has a link to the Toys R Us list.