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Coercion is defined as "the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats" (Dictionary.com) Sexual coercion is "the act of being persuaded to have sex (or some other sexual activity) when you don't want to." (Sexual Coercion Resources, this is a really good resource that outlines sexual coercion) "Coercion is a tactic used by perpetrators to intimidate, trick, or force someone to have sex with them without physical force." (from the Sexual Assault Prevention and Awareness Center discussion Coercion and Consent)
is the act of being persuaded to have sex (or engage in other sexual activities) when you don't want to. - See more at: http://bandbacktogether.com/sexual-coercion-resources/#sthash.7IVMb3HE.dpuf
Sexual coercion is the act of being persuaded to have sex (or engage in other sexual activities) when you don't want to. - See more at: http://bandbacktogether.com/sexual-coercion-resources/#sthash.7IVMb3HE.dpufWhen we talk about sexual violence, the current cultural discussion suggests moving away from the idea that no means no to that of enthusiast consent, the idea that yes means yes. But the truth is, sometimes yes isn't always yes. Sometimes, that yes is born out of coercion and manipulation, sometimes it is born out of a threat. It may look like a yes to an outside observer, legally it may even hold up as a yes, but ethically it is not truly a yes. That's why when we talk about consent, it is defined as someone who is willing and able saying yes out of their own free will. Free will, self-sovereignty, is an important component of true consent.
Which brings us to Bleed Like Me by Christa Desir